22 January 2013

Motivation - 5 years later


Some of the motivational themes I uncovered from last weekend's race:  
  • Either you RUN the day or the day RUNS you.
  • There will be days I don't know if I can do a Half-Marathon. There will be a lifetime knowing I have. 
  • I do not run to add days to my life... add life to my days. 
  • I took the road less traveled by, now where the heck am I?
  • Being a mom is like running a marathon. Every. Single. Freaking. Day.
Ok, so the last one doesn't really apply to me but I thought it struck a cord.    

Time to wrap up this theme.  I'm quite sure ya'll are tied of hearing about last week's jog (I am) and would really rather hear more about the dogs or car shopping or the squirrel in my attic or my latest Netflix movie so I am going to wrap up this meme.

I don't want to bore you guys with all the little details about my run last weekend, but, for some reason, ShadowRun300 is seeking some of my advice about running a half marathon.  I am truly humbled.  So, SR300, this one's for you.  First of all, I am not a serious runner.  In my book, I am still holding my amateur status.  I eat the wrong stuff, drink too much, don’t run as much as I ought to and my training is, to put it mildly, is sloppy.  The mere fact I have stumbled my way through 5 half-marathons just goes to show that, if I can do it, anyone can.  I've learned the system, how to prepare, how to run a half-marathon and walk away with out a limp. 

For the past 5 years, I signed up for this gig in the summer with all sorts of enthusiasm.  And each passing year, around Thanksgiving, I come to question why I keep doing this.  Too old, knees hurt too much, not in shape, work interferes, no time to train, not serious about the run.  All good reasons to bail on the whole deal, but somehow I keep coming back for another round.  ShadowRun, to me, the key to doing this gig is motivation.  All the training in the world won't matter anything if you don't have the right motivation.  From your training runs so far, I have no doubt that you will breeze through the 13.1 mile course with no problem.  Although, I hear "the Hill" is a real bear.  I am expecting to see a sub 8:00 pace.  Good luck and good running.   

Somewhere around mile 10, I was starting to question my resolve.  That's when I gently remind myself why the hell I am doing this in the first place.  After all, it has ONLY been  5 years since since I became "new & improved".  

Yep.  It's that time of the year again when I climb up on my soap box and become a spokesperson for Prostate Cancer awareness.  5 years ago today, I was donning that stylish backless hospital gown and getting ready for my procedure.  Several hours later, I came out on the other side  nauseated from the anesthetics, sporting a wicked scar, and prostate free.   Prostate cancer is one the leading causes of death for men just as Breast cancer is with women.  Annual statistics say that over 280,000 men are diagnosed with Prostate cancer each year.  A simple, precautionary PSA test can save you a world of grief.  As I have said before, this crap is preventable, if you catch it early enough.  The point is, if you have a set of cojones (or know of someone who does), get checked out.  I can attest it is a fairly easy, relatively painless, simple (blood test).  A little prick is a small price to pay to be aware.  Guys avoid it sometimes because of the discomfort of getting a package check.  Embarrassing?  Get over it.  I am too old to GAS anymore and proof that, if you catch it early, you can beat it.  So, if you are a guy skirting 50, if you know of a guy over 50, if your brother/dad/son are getting on in years, please insist  demand/nag/plead to get checked out.  Life’s way too short to gamble with your health.  I am a testament to the fact it does not have to be a fatal diagnosis.  I got checked out, dealt with it and I am still here after 5 years enjoying good beer and fine scotch and life in general and I am not making plans to go anywhere just yet.  Ok. I am getting down off the soapbox now.  

7 comments:

Rock Chef said...

Hm, 50 this summer...

ShadowRun300 said...

Here's the thing. I'm not a serious runner either, and my work interferes quite often with running. If I can't run in the morning, I don't. So quite often I only get 2-3 times a week in. BUT, I'm determined to run 13.1 miles and experience the thrill of having pushed myself and accomplished something I never thought I could do. Just like you did. THAT is why I look up to you. And why I seek your advice. You should be proud at what you have overcome and what you're able to do.
Congratulations on your 5 year anniversary. Today happens to be my husband's 48th birthday, and YES, I will be pushing him to get checked.
Thanks again for motivational themes. I particularly like "There will be days I don't know if I can do a Half-Marathon. There will be a lifetime knowing I have." But PLEASE, don't expect a sub 8.00 pace from me... maybe 9? After all, I have "The Hill"...

Abby said...

Magnum just turned 50, so a whole new world of "checks" has opened up to him. I'll keep him on his appointments!
When I was dissing Lance Armstrong last weekend, you are tops on my list of people who do impressive things IN ADDITION to overcoming cancer. And not just the athletic feats, but being a good father and husband, rescuing dogs... the list goes on!

agg79 said...

RC - Your time is coming, my friend. 50 is that magical time when you get to "enjoy" some of the special treatments in life.

SR300 - Your run schedule sounds a lot like mine. I have no doubt you will crush the course. But be careful, once you do one, they can get addictive. And remember, the Hill goes both ways, what goes up, must come down.

Abby - Keep riding Magnum's butt about the test. Nobody likes to do it but, compared to wisdom teeth, this little test is a walk in the park. And I am definitely no Lance Armstrong - not enough doping.

terri said...

Well, I've hit my lazy phase for the year, spurred on by a couple of winter illnesses and a back strain. I haven't run regularly in weeks and weeks. And now it's the dead of winter, dark and cold. I'm unmotivated.

But everything you've just described makes me realize I can get back on that horse and keep running. (As soon as it's not so cold that the outside air makes it impossible to breathe.)

Congrats on your 5 year anniversary. I remember you were just moving on from that part of your life when we first "met." I am very glad you came back from the cancer stronger than ever and dedicated to educating others about staying healthy and getting tested.

agg79 said...

Thanks, Terri. You were my inspiration to start this little blog so, in some way, you are to blame for all the bad jokes and lame humor. 5 years doesn't seem all that long, but life has changed. Thanks for keeping me company on the ride.

meleah rebeccah said...

"I come to question why I keep doing this.  Too old, knees hurt too much, not in shape, work interferes, no time to train, not serious about the run.  All good reasons to bail on the whole deal, but somehow I keep coming back for another round."

And I have so much respect and admiration for you, because quite frankly, even ONE of those excuses is enough to keep ME at home!

I know Prostate Cancer is a serious matter, but "donning that stylish backless hospital gown" really made me laugh.

" I am a testament to the fact it does not have to be a fatal diagnosis."

And AMEN to that!!